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Alessio Tonato

Therapist · United Kingdom

Alessio Tonato, BACP

Clear, practical talk therapy for everyday change

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  • Thoughts and habits
  • Relationship focus
  • English French Italian

About Alessio

Alessio Tonato is a counsellor who offers talk therapy and practical support for everyday struggles. He is BACP registered, and works in English, French and Italian. Alessio focuses on helping people clarify what matters to them and take small, steady steps towards change.

He draws on a holistic, dialogic approach that raises awareness of current patterns. Sessions aim to help people notice thoughts, feelings and bodily responses so they can make different choices. Alessio uses straightforward conversation to uncover what sits at the heart of a problem rather than relying on jargon or fixed techniques.

Clients are invited to look at habits that get in the way. Alessio helps identify unhelpful thinking and behaviour, and then build new ways of coping that fit the person’s life and goals. Work can include looking at relationships, stress, anxiety, low self-esteem, or difficulties with intimacy and trust.

He also supports people dealing with career change, family problems, grief and the impact of trauma or abuse. Additional focus areas include abandonment, attachment issues, codependency, communication problems and impulsivity. Sessions are practical and aim to produce options people can try between meetings.

Alessio has seven years' experience in counselling. He encourages a calm, explorative tone in the room and helps people move from awareness into action. To start, people complete a short matching questionnaire and then schedule sessions according to availability.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyRelationship issuesIntimacy-related issuesSelf esteemDepression

Also works with

Family conflictsTrauma and abuseAnger managementCareer difficultiesCoping with life changes

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAttachment issuesAvoidant personalityCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesDependent personalityDivorce and separationEmptinessFamily problemsForgivenessGuilt and shameImpulsivityInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisMoney and financial issuesMood disordersNarcissismObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksParanoiaPhobiasPost-traumatic stressProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Self-loveSocial anxiety and phobiaWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Attachment-Based TherapyMindfulness TherapySomatic Therapy

Experience

7+ years

Credentials

BACP · United Kingdom

Languages

English, French, Italian

How these approaches translate to online therapy

Attachment-Based Therapy looks at how early connections shape current relationships. In online sessions this can help people notice attachment patterns that affect trust and closeness, and practise different ways of relating in daily life. Mindfulness Therapy teaches simple attention and breathing practices that make thoughts and feelings easier to notice and manage; it is useful for stress, anxiety and low mood. Somatic Therapy focuses on bodily sensations and how the body holds stress, helping people learn to track and change physical responses linked to emotion.

Finding the right approach is part of the work. Alessio aims to be collaborative and will discuss which methods suit a person's goals and preferences. Together they decide whether to emphasise awareness, body-based exercises, or mindful practices, and the plan can change as therapy progresses.

Session formats are not detailed here, so please confirm the available options before booking. Online sessions can make it easier to fit therapy into a busy week, reduce travel time and allow shorter check-ins when needed. They also let people work from familiar surroundings and try exercises between meetings, which can help turn insight into everyday habits.

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of concerns can be brought to therapy?

Alessio helps with stress, anxiety, depression and self-esteem issues, along with relationship and intimacy-related concerns. He also works with family problems, trauma and abuse, anger, career matters and coping with life changes.

What is his therapeutic style like?

He uses a holistic, dialogic approach that focuses on raising awareness of thoughts, feelings and bodily responses. Sessions are conversational and practical, with an emphasis on finding new habits and options that fit daily life.

How much experience does he have?

He has seven years' experience working as a psychotherapeutic counsellor. That background informs his approach to helping people clarify goals and try different ways of coping.

What credentials and location are listed?

He is BACP registered and practises in the United Kingdom.

Which languages are supported in sessions?

Sessions are offered in English, French and Italian.

Can international clients work with him?

International clients are not currently accepted.

How does pricing work?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription that can be cancelled at any time.

How do I begin therapy?

Choose the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and then schedule sessions according to the therapist's availability.

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