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Jennifer Gilman

Therapist · California

Jennifer Gilman, LMFT

Practical help for thoughts and daily habits

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  • Thoughts and habits
  • Practical skills
  • Affirming approach

About Jennifer

Jennifer Gilman is a California-based licensed marriage and family therapist (LMFT) with decades of clinical experience. She helps people manage stress, anxiety, depression, grief, parenting strain, and major life changes. She also addresses relationship and intimacy concerns, addiction-related issues, and areas like ADHD and self-esteem. Her sessions focus on everyday thoughts and habits as starting points for change. She uses straightforward conversation to identify unhelpful patterns. Then she helps clients practice small, doable changes that fit into daily life. Jennifer aims to create an affirming, respectful space for people to talk through identity questions and relationship challenges. She pays attention to how past attachment and abandonment experiences show up now. She also supports people dealing with caregiver stress, body image worries, and work-related burnout. Her style is collaborative and practical. She listens for what matters most to each person and suggests specific skills to try between sessions. Progress is checked together so plans can be adjusted. Beyond talk, she helps clients build routines for sleeping, eating, and managing urges. She draws on approaches that center on thoughts and everyday habits to make changes feel realistic. This work is meant to help people handle current problems and build steadier coping over time.

Areas of expertise

Also works with

AddictionsLGBTRelationship issuesFamily conflictsTrauma and abuseIntimacy-related issuesEating disordersSleeping disordersAnger managementSelf esteemCareer difficultiesBipolar disorderCoachingCompassion fatigueADHD

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAging and geriatric issuesAttachment issuesAutism and Asperger SyndromeAvoidant personalityBDSM, kink, and alternative sex cultureBlended family issuesBody imageCaregiver issues and stressCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDependent personalityDivorce and separationDrug and alcohol addictionEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFatherhood issuesGuilt and shameHospice and end-of-life counselingImpulsivityInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisMoney and financial issuesMood disordersMulticultural concernsNarcissismObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressPregnancy and childbirthPrejudice and discriminationProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSelf-loveSexualitySocial anxiety and phobiaTraumatic brain injuryWomen's issuesWorkplace issues

Experience

32+ years

Credentials

California

Languages

English

How therapeutic techniques adapt to online work

Jennifer draws on evidence-based techniques that focus on thoughts and everyday habits. One commonly used approach involves noticing thought patterns, testing whether they match reality, and then practicing alternative ways of thinking to reduce anxiety and low mood. This approach helps with worries, depression, and self-esteem concerns.

Another useful set of techniques centers on habit and routine change. That work breaks goals into small steps, builds reliable daily routines for sleep, eating, and self-care, and uses repeated practice to strengthen new behaviors. It is helpful for managing stress, sleep problems, and addictive urges.

Choosing the right approach is part of the therapy process. She works together with each person to weigh goals, preferences, and what feels doable. The plan can change over time based on progress and feedback, so therapy stays focused and practical.

Please confirm current session options before booking, as the biography does not list specific formats. Online therapy can make it easier to fit sessions into a busy week, reduce travel time, and allow shorter check-ins when needed. Talk with the therapist about what will best fit day-to-day life and treatment goals.

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does she help with?

She supports people with stress, anxiety, depression, grief, parenting challenges, relationship and intimacy issues, addictions, ADHD, and many life changes.

What is her therapeutic style?

Her approach is collaborative and practical, focusing on everyday thoughts and habits and small changes clients can try between sessions.

How much clinical experience does she have?

She has 32 years of professional experience as a therapist working with a wide range of concerns.

What are her credentials and where is she located?

She is a licensed marriage and family therapist (LMFT) licensed in California and practices in California.

Which languages are supported in sessions?

Sessions are offered in English.

Can international clients work with her?

She does not accept international clients at this time.

How does pricing work for sessions?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

How do I begin working with her?

Click the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule according to therapist availability.

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