- Thoughts and everyday habits
- Relationship support
- Stress and anxiety
About Ray
He focuses on practical conversation and steady support. Sessions are shaped around each person’s needs, and he adapts his approach as goals change. That can mean looking at everyday thoughts and habits, or learning new ways to talk about painful events and relationship patterns.
Ray uses a mix of methods to match what a person is facing. He draws on attachment ideas to explore how early connections affect current relationships. Cognitive behavioral techniques help people notice unhelpful thoughts and try different behaviors. Emotion-focused and Gottman-informed tools are used when relationship patterns and emotional expression need attention.
He emphasizes respect, sensitivity, and compassion in sessions. Ray aims to make the room straightforward and focused so people can practice small changes that add up over time. He encourages clear goals and regular check-ins on progress.
Ray welcomes people who are ready to take a step toward change and offers a calm, practical way to work through issues. To begin, readers should use the platform’s Start Therapy flow and schedule according to the matching process.
Areas of expertise
Primary focus
Additional focus areas
Therapeutic approaches
Experience
16+ years
Credentials
Oklahoma, Kansas
Languages
English
Online approaches for thoughts, feelings, and relationships
Ray uses Attachment-Based ideas to look at how early relationship patterns show up now; this approach helps people spot recurring interaction styles and find new ways to connect. Client-Centered Therapy means he centers sessions on the person's experience, listening closely and shaping conversations around what the person says matters most. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) is used to identify unhelpful thoughts and try practical behavior changes that reduce distress and improve everyday functioning.Choosing the right approach is a collaborative process. Ray will work together with each person to decide which methods fit their goals and preferences, and he adjusts the plan as things change. The emphasis is on trying useful strategies and checking whether they help over time.
Online therapy can make it easier to fit sessions into a busy week by removing travel time and allowing meetings from different locations. It can also support shorter check-ins when needed, or sessions that rely more on voice than video if that suits someone's comfort or bandwidth. Because the biography does not list specific session formats, confirm the available online options before booking to find what works best with your schedule.
Frequently asked questions
What kinds of problems does Ray address?
He helps people with stress, anxiety, relationship concerns, trauma and abuse, self-esteem, and depression, plus related issues like communication problems and caregiver stress.
What is Ray's general therapy style?
His style is practical and person-centered, focusing on respectful conversation and tailored plans that fit each person's needs and goals.
How much clinical experience does he have?
Ray has sixteen years of professional experience working with adults on emotional and relational concerns.
What are Ray's credentials and where does he practice?
He holds LCMFT and LMFT credentials and practices in Oklahoma.
Can I work with him if I'm outside the United States?
Yes, he accepts international clients and conducts sessions in English.
What session formats are offered?
Please confirm current session options before booking, as specific formats are not listed in the biography.
How does cost and payment work?
Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.
How do I begin working with Ray?
Click the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and then schedule sessions according to the matching results and therapist availability.