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Richard Alongi

Therapist · California

Richard Alongi, LMFT

Experienced LMFT focusing on thoughts and habits

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  • Addictions and relationships
  • Stress and anxiety
  • Intimacy and attachment

About Richard

Richard Alongi is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT) practicing in California with more than three decades of experience. He works with people facing addictions, relationship and intimacy challenges, anxiety, depression, and the stress of life changes. He speaks English and aims to make first steps feel manageable for those who are unsure where to begin.

He uses a conversational, respectful approach focused on each person's situation. Sessions involve talking about thoughts, everyday habits, and patterns that get in the way of goals. He adapts the pace and topics to what feels most useful to the individual rather than following a fixed script.

Richard draws on approaches such as attachment-based work, emotionally-focused methods, client-centered techniques, Imago relationship ideas, and Jungian perspectives. That mix helps him look at how relationships, personal history, and inner patterns interact with current problems. Practical tools and reflective conversation are used together to help people make changes.

People often bring issues like addiction, grief, anger, ADHD, codependency, or caregiver stress. He also addresses intimacy-related concerns, commitment struggles, dissociation, and feelings of emptiness. The focus is on clear, manageable steps that can be tried between sessions.

Richard emphasizes respect, sensitivity, and compassion in sessions. He will tailor discussion and a plan to each person's needs. To begin, readers are encouraged to use the site process to match and schedule a session that fits their timing.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

AddictionsRelationship issuesTrauma and abuseIntimacy-related issuesSelf esteem

Also works with

Stress, AnxietyGriefAnger managementCareer difficultiesDepressionCoping with life changesCoachingCompassion fatigueADHD

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAging and geriatric issuesAttachment issuesAvoidant personalityBDSM, kink, and alternative sex cultureCaregiver issues and stressCo-morbidityCodependencyCommitment issuesControl issuesDependent personalityDissociationDivorce and separationDrug and alcohol addictionEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFatherhood issuesForgivenessGender dysphoriaGuilt and shameHoardingHospice and end-of-life counselingImpulsivityInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisMoney and financial issuesMood disordersNarcissismObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPersonality disordersPhobiasPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsPost-traumatic stressPrejudice and discriminationProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Self-loveSex addictionSexual dysfunctionSexualitySocial anxiety and phobiaWomen's issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyEmotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)Imago Relationship TherapyJungian TherapyMindfulness TherapyMotivational InterviewingPsychodynamic TherapySomatic TherapyTrauma-Focused Therapy

Experience

36+ years

Credentials

California

Languages

English

How therapeutic approaches translate to online work

Attachment-Based Therapy looks at how early bonds shape current reactions and relationship patterns. It helps people understand closeness, trust, and how they respond under stress. Client-Centered Therapy emphasizes a respectful, nonjudgmental conversation that follows the person's priorities and experience. This approach is useful for building confidence and exploring everyday habits that affect mood and behavior.

Finding the right approach is part of the work. The therapist will discuss options and decide together which methods match a person's goals and comfort. That collaborative planning includes checking whether practical tools or longer reflective work will be more helpful for a given issue.

Session formats are not specified in the biography, so confirm current options before booking. Online therapy can make it easier to fit sessions around work, caregiving, or other responsibilities. It can allow shorter check-ins when schedules are tight, reduce travel time, and help maintain continuity after a life change. Licensed professionals can use these formats to continue therapy without sacrificing the thoughtful, attachment-aware and client-centered approach that guides in-person work.

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of concerns does Richard work with?

He helps people with addictions, relationship and intimacy issues, anxiety, depression, grief, anger, stress, ADHD, and related areas like codependency and caregiver strain.

What is his general therapy style?

He uses a conversational, client-centered style that focuses on thoughts and everyday habits. Sessions mix reflection about patterns with practical steps to try between meetings.

How long has he been practicing?

He has 36 years of professional experience supporting people with a wide range of concerns.

What credentials and location are listed?

He is a California Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist - LMFT - and practices in California.

Which languages are available for sessions?

Sessions are offered in English.

Are international clients offered services?

International clients are not currently accepted.

How are sessions scheduled and what do they cost?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

How do I get started with this therapist?

Select the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule according to the therapist's availability.

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