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Tameka McFarland

Therapist · North Carolina

Tameka McFarland, LMFT

Relationship and family therapist focused on connection

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  • Relationship help
  • Family support
  • Thoughts and habits

About Tameka

Tameka McFarland is a licensed marriage and family therapist (LMFT) based in North Carolina. She focuses on relationship and family concerns, and she helps people address intimacy, parenting stress, and self-esteem issues. She sees adults 18 and older and welcomes clients of all sexual orientations and backgrounds.

Her approach draws on several practical methods. She uses Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT) to help partners understand and shift patterns that damage connection. She also uses Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) to address anxious thoughts and unhelpful behavior, and Attachment-Based Therapy to look at how early relationships shape current reactions.

McFarland earned a Bachelor of Arts in Psychology with a minor in Human Development and Family Studies from UNC Greensboro in 2004. She completed a Master of Science degree at Capella University in 2017 and has held an LMFT since December 2017. She runs a private practice in North Carolina and has about seven years of professional experience.

In sessions she commonly works with issues such as grief, depression, stress, and coping with life changes. She also supports people with concerns about abandonment, communication problems, blended family dynamics, and forgiveness. Her practice includes attention to compassion fatigue and body image concerns.

She treats individuals and couples at various stages of relationship - dating, planning marriage, married, or considering divorce. She also provides support for parenting challenges and family problems. Prospective clients can expect a straightforward, goal-oriented focus on thoughts and everyday habits alongside relational patterns.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Relationship issuesFamily conflictsIntimacy-related issuesParenting issuesSelf esteem

Also works with

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAttachment issuesBlended family issuesBody imageCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesDependent personalityDivorce and separationDomestic violenceFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFatherhood issuesForgivenessGuilt and shameHoardingInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMoney and financial issuesMulticultural concernsNarcissismPanic disorder and panic attacksPostpartum depressionPregnancy and childbirthPrejudice and discriminationSelf-loveSocial anxiety and phobiaWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)Mindfulness TherapyMotivational InterviewingNarrative TherapySolution-Focused TherapySystemic Therapy

Experience

7+ years

Credentials

North Carolina, Virginia, South Carolina

Languages

English

How therapeutic approaches shape online work

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) helps people notice difficult thoughts and choose actions that align with their values rather than getting stuck in avoidance. It can be useful for anxiety, stress, and making life changes. Attachment-Based Therapy looks at how early relationships influence current bonds and patterns; it aims to shift how partners or individuals relate to one another. Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT) focuses on the emotions beneath relationship conflict and helps people build safer emotional connections.

Finding the right approach is part of the work. The therapist will talk with the client about goals, symptoms, and personal preferences, then suggest approaches that fit. Decisions about which methods to use happen together and can change as therapy progresses.

Confirm current session options before booking since formats were not specified in the provided information. Online therapy can make it easier to fit appointments into a busy week, reduce travel time, and allow for shorter check-ins when needed. It also lets people choose sessions that work with their daily routine, such as scheduling around work or childcare. Licensed professionals can adapt therapy exercises, thought-tracking tools, and emotion-focused interventions to remote sessions so progress can continue even when meeting from different locations.

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of concerns are addressed here?

Typical concerns include relationship and intimacy issues, parenting stress, self-esteem, anxiety, grief, depression, and coping with life changes.

What is the general therapy style used?

The therapist blends Emotionally-Focused Therapy, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, and Attachment-Based approaches to focus on thoughts, behavior, and relationship patterns.

What background does the therapist have?

She holds a Master of Science degree from Capella University and a Bachelor of Arts from UNC Greensboro, and has been licensed since December 2017 with about seven years of experience.

Where is the therapist located and licensed?

The clinician practices in North Carolina and holds SC LMFT and NC LMFT credentials.

Which languages are sessions offered in?

Sessions are offered in English.

Are international clients taken?

International clients are not currently accepted.

How are costs and billing handled?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability, and sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

How do I begin therapy here?

Start by selecting the Start Therapy button, completing a short matching questionnaire, and then scheduling according to the therapist's availability.

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